Sometimes, when you want to do something, someone always questions your background, experience, and ability. It’s fine. ‘I don’t know how to solve this problem yet, but I’ll figure it out.’
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Context
This note addresses a very common situation: you want to do something, and others question your background, experience, and ability. The response the note offers is just one sentence:
“I don’t know how to solve this problem yet, but I’ll figure it out.”
This sentence has two layers. The first half honestly admits that you can’t do it yet. The second half commits you to working it out. It separates two questions: “Can this problem be solved?” and “Do I currently know how to solve it?” Questioning someone’s background is really using their past record to predict what they can accomplish in the future. This sentence doesn’t argue about the record. It redirects attention to what to do next.
This is worth thinking about more today. Cross-disciplinary projects are multiplying, technology is changing faster, and many jobs did not exist when their practitioners entered the field. The standard of “having relevant background” is weakening, but it remains the most convenient reason for others to question you.
Key Insights
1. “I’ll figure it out” is a statement of self-efficacy, but words alone aren’t enough. It has to be backed by accomplishment.
Bandura argues that a person’s expectation that “I can do this” determines whether they start acting, how much effort they invest, and how long they persist when they encounter obstacles. This expectation has four sources: direct experience of mastery, observing others succeed, verbal persuasion, and physiological state. The more reliable the source, the greater the change in self-efficacy. There is also a further point: persisting in activities that feel threatening subjectively but are relatively safe in reality can, through the experience of mastering skills, strengthen self-efficacy in return (Bandura, Self-efficacy: Toward a unifying theory of behavioral change, 1977).
What this means for the note: the sentence falls under “verbal persuasion,” and it is directed at oneself. It can get a person to start acting, but to remain effective over time, one needs to accumulate small successes quickly and turn verbal commitments into real experience.
2. Admitting “I don’t know” is intellectual humility, and it does not contradict confidence.
Leary et al. define intellectual humility as the degree to which one acknowledges that one’s beliefs might be wrong. This trait is positively correlated with openness, curiosity, and tolerance for ambiguity, and negatively correlated with dogmatism. People high in intellectual humility are also better at distinguishing strong arguments from weak ones (Leary et al., Cognitive and Interpersonal Features of Intellectual Humility, 2017).
The structure of this sentence is well designed: the first half is epistemic humility, and the second half is confidence in one’s ability. Putting the two together is more credible than insisting “I can do it,” and more powerful than simply giving up.
3. Not knowing how to do something can sometimes be a good thing.
Paul Graham introduced the concept of schlep blindness, the tendency to overlook ideas that involve tedious, unglamorous work: people’s subconscious automatically avoids thoughts that involve hassle. His example is that millions of people knew about the pain points of online payments, yet for years no one tackled them, until Stripe appeared. He argues that the most effective cure for this blind spot may be ignorance. Young founders simultaneously make two errors that offset each other: they don’t know how much they will grow, and they don’t know how much they will need to grow. Older founders only make the first error. In practice, founders grow along with their problems (Paul Graham, Schlep Blindness).
Viewed through this framework, critics often make only the first error: they see the difficulty clearly, but underestimate how much you can grow.
4. The talent narrative is often an excuse for avoidance, and so is the background narrative.
Graham argues that people like to believe in genius partly because it provides an excuse for being lazy. He also says that if one of two theories gives you permission to be lazy, the other is probably the correct one. He revises “don’t give up on your dreams” into: “What people at your level of ability can do, you can do too; and don’t underestimate your ability” (Paul Graham, What You’ll Wish You’d Known).
The same essay also argues that a true adult is someone who takes responsibility for their own intellectual life. Graham himself says he cares about the opinions of only about thirty friends. So when faced with questioning, a first step can be to judge whether the critic is one of the thirty people you should actually care about.
5. The counterargument: some questions are genuinely valid.
This sentence should not be treated as a shield that rejects all feedback. Questions roughly fall into two categories:
- Threshold questions: for example, “You don’t have a degree or credentials.” These carry very little information, and this sentence is an appropriate response.
- Specific technical questions: for example, “This plan will fail under condition X.” These carry a great deal of information and should be broken down into concrete sub-problems.
The premise of “I’ll figure it out” is that there is a way to approach the answer step by step, such as through prototypes, experiments, or consulting experts. Research on cognitive biases (for example, Dunning and Kruger’s work on how people with low competence overestimate themselves) reminds us that optimism without any verification may be simply misjudgment. Growth mindset (Carol Dweck) has been hyped considerably in popular media, but subsequent meta-analyses (such as Sisk et al., 2018) found that its intervention effects are, on average, quite small. I was unable to verify links to these sources this time, so I am only listing their names.
6. This sentence is also a communication strategy.
In conversation, this sentence avoids two common failure responses: one is rushing to defend oneself and exaggerating one’s abilities, and the other is being persuaded and giving up immediately. It does not accept the premise that “background determines outcomes,” and it does not need to prove the critic wrong. Whether to continue is left to be answered by facts in the end.
Open Questions
- Under what circumstances does “I’ll figure it out” turn into self-deception? Can we find an actionable criterion for judging this? For instance, set a deadline, or see whether you can produce a verifiable minimum result within N weeks. If you fail to deliver by then, admit that the judgment was wrong.
- Can criticism itself be treated as a resource? Critics usually see the difficulties but not your room for growth. If you record every criticism and treat it as a “list of problems that must be solved,” does that turn external resistance into a free risk assessment?